Simplicity is hacking away the unessential. – It is not daily increase but daily decrease – hack away the unessential! The closer to the source, the less wastage there is. –Bruce Lee
When I started my Journey 5 years ago, I wasn’t a typical student of the art. I was popular, had enough girls, and hung out with the cool crowd. When I go back to my hometown I have people I’d never seen before come up telling me they knew who I was. I ask them,”Which class were we in?” with them excitedly replying, “Oh no, we were never in class, I know you because you hung out with so and so. You guys were always too cool for us.” Clearly.
So why plunge into the Journey? I was leaving for University and wanted the extra edge. I was scared I couldn’t replicate my status in the new setting. When I stumbled upon the seduction community I was overwhelmed by how many different ways you could meet a girl. At the time I only knew one way. I wanted so badly to learn every seduction style in order to give myself the best advantage. If I was in a coffee shop, I would use the latest day-game tactics. If I was in a nightclub, I would use the latest buying temperature pumper material. I desired an impenetrable fortress of tactics so there would be no scenario where I would not know what to do. I wanted to know beforehand, not while I was in the middle of a conversation. Thinking on my feet was something unpredictable so it didn’t interest me as a long term solution to my social life. Little did I know what mess I was getting into.
I was always about building my social life as opposed to just getting amazing at “picking up” chicks. However, when I began I foolishly became very good at getting women first, thinking the world would then admire me for my Don Juan like abilities, thus taking care of my social life. Who else can relate to this?
I was in for a rude awakening. My plan did not turn out the way I predicted. The people who admired me weren’t people I liked, the girls I brought into my life left, and the ones who really got to know me shunned me when they discovered who I really was; someone wishing they were someone else. (Read: Trying to be cool)
That was 3 years ago. I decided to take a break from everything due to my current results. I chipped away at the fake unpleasant persona I built up over the years, a little each day. 3 years later, I am overcome by a wave of immeasurable gratitude. The people I attract into my life are all good people, the ladies are all ones I won over by being myself (which also means I don’t have to do much else to keep them), and my favourite point of all, I have the BEST social circle on the planet. It consists of people who I can truly just be myself and am not personally judged for any of my actions or beliefs. Sure, they will give their opinions and criticism, but never think any less of me for choosing what I have chosen. I am very lucky to have stumbled upon this last point. It has been my backbone for realizing my Principles for Unlimited Social Success.
I was out with my friend recently who is one of the best naturals I have ever seen. I’ve learned much more from him than vice versa. He wanted advice on how to approach a girl. (Even the best look for advice when the pressure’s on) What this lead to was the discovery of a simple system which ALWAYS gives you the PERFECT thing to say – ON THE SPOT, AND making it real, authentic, and genuine to the core. What you say will always make sense to the other person.
I’m so excited as I have been sharing new personal thoughts and philosophies with close and respected friends. These friends include Chartered Accountants, International Corporate Lawyers, all the way to my old Psychology Professor. Respectively, they have each used my Principles to build better relationships with their clients, land the cases they want, and dedicating a class and an assignment to their class for my teachings.
My principles are universal and are always effective. I am excited to share them with anyone who wants to learn. They are simple enough for ANYONE to learn and easy enough to apply right now. It is also an impenetrable system that never fails. You will always know what to do. I will be giving you the pieces to the puzzle in the blog posts to come.
-Tung
